Why not everyone are successful?

I have met so many passionate people whom I saw and I felt like this guy is going to make it big in his life but in the end, they don’t and I think one of the reasons is that — most people lacked “Self-belief”. These people always doubted their capabilities, they underestimated themselves and overestimated others. That’s where I feel the other people who are confident took the advantage and became successful.

Even I was hesitant while choosing law as a career because I felt that there were already so many big established lawyers in our country so I thought that how can I make my name. Then I realized that I was just self-doubting myself and nothing else. I just wasn’t confident enough about myself and my strengths rather I was more worried about my weaknesses. Then I made up my mind, trusted my capabilities, and finally chose law as a career.

If you think that you have the potential to make it big in life then Stop thinking,” How am I gonna compete with so many established people around me? I don’t think I will be able to do it. I am not good enough.”You should stop thinking like this because once you start thinking like this over and over again then your thoughts will become your beliefs and then eventually that it will turn out to be a reality . That’s why people say that what you think is what you become.

Just remember that You were born to win, but to be a winner, you must plan to win, prepare to win, and expect to win. Yes, things might not always go as you planned but that’s how you learn and improve. When things go wrong Change your route, not your destination.

When you think that you aren’t good enough then you will feel like — “let it go”. And the moment you start having the feeling of “let it go” that’s the moment you have to say to yourself that,” No! I am good enough. I am gonna try because someone who has made a big name was once nobody. They also had to start somewhere. Because they didn’t become legends overnight.” So the belief is something you cannot afford to “Let go”.

The people who had the belief are the ones who went on to make it big in life. I think belief is something that distinguishes the best from the rest. The only difference between an “extra-ordinary” and an “ordinary” is that “extra”.

I always say it to people when they feel demotivated that Just because the past didn’t turn out the way you wanted it to be, doesn’t mean the future can’t be better than you ever imagined. Many people who quit midway don’t realize how close they were towards their goal.

If you want to be successful be ready to fail as well and also don’t shy away from asking help from others because you might not be able to do it alone. So Ask for help, not because you are weak but because you want to remain strong

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